My name is Daniel. I’m thirty-four years old, and for years I convinced myself that working myself to the bone was a form of love.

I was a regional director at a large bank in Austin, Texas. Promotions, meetings, business trips, dinners with clients. There was always a reason to stay late. Always a call to take. Always something that felt urgent. And while I was building our financial security, my wife Hannah was being left all alone inside the house that was supposed to protect her.