For twenty-three years, I was the ghost in my own home.

I cooked every meal for my brother William, but I never once sat down at the table with the family.

I will never forget the night I made his favorite pot roast, with the carrots and potatoes just the way he liked them. William strolled in at six o’clock, hung his coat on the back of the chair, and smiled. Mother said, ‘William, dear, you must be starving. Let’s say grace.’