I will never forget the sound of that chicken hitting the wet concrete.

It was a heavy, wet thud, and then a sharp bark as the dog pounced.

My mother-in-law, Martha, wiped her hands on her silk trousers as if she had just handled something filthy.

“If your father ever sends that country food here again, I’ll throw it out, box and all,” she said, her voice dripping with contempt.