At dinner, my son-in-law Bradley pushed my plate aside until my food fell to the floor, smiled, and said, “It is just food.” Everyone went quiet. I did not argue. I picked up his brand-new phone, opened the bill with my name on it, and said, “Then this is just a phone.” By the time I removed it from my account, my daughter Patricia finally understood who had been paying for the comfort he kept taking for granted.