She glanced at my wheelchair as if it were a stray dog that had wandered onto her property.

“Maybe we can help you look into assisted living facilities,” she added brightly. “I’m sure there are government programs for someone in your situation.”

Someone in my situation. Not her mother-in-law. Not the woman who had sewed her wedding veil by hand because she couldn’t afford the one she wanted. Just a problem to be solved, an old lady who belonged in a facility so she wouldn’t clutter up their perfect lives.