One evening, my best friend, Laura, said, ‘Grace, you didn’t lose a husband. You lost a dependent. And you just gained back your life.’

Those words stayed with me. I started to think about all the things I had put on hold. The trip to the Grand Canyon I’d always wanted to take. The watercolor painting classes I’d been too busy to sign up for. The little bookshop downtown I’d dreamed about opening one day. Now, there was nothing stopping me.