The rain hadn’t stopped all day.

It hammered against the windows of our Oakdale neighborhood home in Charlotte, a steady drumbeat that matched the ache in my bones as I stood over the stove, stirring the almond mole that had been simmering since sunrise.

My name is Eleanor Vance.

I am thirty-five years old, a financial director for a pharmaceutical company here in Charlotte, and for the past five years, I have silently transferred $10,000 every single month into the accounts of my husband’s family.