I knew something was wrong the moment my son Ethan told me the news.

He was a senior at Ohio State, just three weeks into dating a girl named Brittany, when she announced she was pregnant.

I remember the exact moment: Ethan came home for the weekend, his face pale and terrified. He sat down at our kitchen table in Columbus, Ohio, and said, “Mom, I have to tell you something.”

I braced myself.

“Brittany is pregnant,” he whispered. “She took three tests. They’re all positive.”

My heart dropped to the floor. Ethan was only 22 years old, with his whole life ahead of him. He was studying engineering, dreaming of working for NASA one day. Now, everything had changed in an instant.