The day I buried my husband, his mother threw my clothes onto the lawn while I was still wearing my funeral dress.

I had just come back from the cemetery. My eyes were so swollen I could barely see. I remember the way the black fabric clung to my skin, damp from tears and the October chill. Eleanor Harrison stood on the porch of that grand colonial house in Maplewood, Ohio, like a queen surveying a trespasser. Robert, her husband, watched from the window, his face empty.