The second wave of laughter cut deeper. I felt my face grow warm. I was not embarrassed for myself. I was embarrassed for my father, because he did not stop it. I was embarrassed for my mother, who was not there to stop it. My mother, Ruth Bennett, had passed away twelve years before. She used to answer Bradley before I had to. She would say, “Enough, Bradley. Your sister serves this country. Show some respect.” But my mother was gone, and no one else said that sentence.